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YAAY! New people. [Jan. 1st, 2007|01:48 pm]
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Have the mods got any issues with comm advertisements? 'Cause on that front, I can also give you sister comms/affiliates!!

So.. Hm.

My name is Laura... I'm stuck in missouri, working until I can get into College.
My sun sign is Aries, and I'm a Tiger by Chinese Zodiac standards.

So, have you ladies ever broken up with someone, and they've completely broken off contact...even though you ended up letting them go for their own good? I did that not too long ago...and she blocked me from everything.

The story:
I loved this girl, and no, names will not be mentioned. I still love her, but the love I felt...changed. I didn't love her as strongly as she did me, and I felt it would be the best thing to let her go, because to stay together with her, I felt would be wrong. Love isn't supposed to be a cage, after all.
I sent her Christmas presents, right before I told her how I felt. And, she threatened to send them back, saying that I lied to her, and was leading her on.

...But I wasn't. I tried explaining to her that I still wanted to be a part of her life, and that I still loved her, but as a friend until I got some things sorted out, mentally, emotionally and physically.

...And we fought. Well, the next day, I asked her how her day was..and she yelled at me, and blocked me from everything.

So, now there's this big gap where our friendship used to be.

That's me, ladies. Have fun!

[User Picture]From: maiden_twilight
2007-01-01 08:47 pm (UTC)
Hey, welcome!

About the breaking up thing...well, here's my story. Basically I was really close friends with this one girl, and this was just after I had discovered I was bi, so I was a little confused about my sexuality. So I wasn't sure if I felt attracted to her "that way," or if I had just never had a friend that close before. Well, she asked me out, and I said yes, but then a day later I decided I didn't feel that way about her and broke it off. Stupid and immature of me, I know. Anyway, we stayed friends for a while, but after a few months she stopped IMing me and stuff and we just gradually grew apart. I still see her in school, but I think she hates me.

So, not quite the same thing as what you're going through, but kinda similar? Maybe?

Sorry I wrote you a book for a comment :P
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From: rosesatmidnight
2007-01-01 10:22 pm (UTC)
Naw, short'n'sweet.

Similar in many ways, I think. I was honest with her, and loved her enough not to lie...and I guess this is the thanks we get?

Really, if being honest to ones self is being stupid and immature, I think everyone SHOULD be! What I don't get is how people say one thing and do another, like biting your head off for being true to your words. It's strange.
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[User Picture]From: maiden_twilight
2007-01-01 10:30 pm (UTC)
Well, I meant that I was being stupid and immature because I just jumped right into it and then broke it off a day later, not the actual breaking up. I should have thought things through first. But yeah, you're right. It is strange.
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